Simplify - To-do Lists
Another Thursday, another Simplify Hack!
We're already on our forth post in this series, and I hope you're enjoying it as much as I am. I trust that you can put these ideas into practice, always mindful of the season you're in.
These posts are meant solely for encouragement, never to add an extra load of to-dos to your list, even though that's this week's topic. You should be able to either fully embrace it or set it aside for another time because this may not be the season to incorporate anything new. Your main focus is survival.
But remember, this season will pass, and there is hope. I would just encourage you to keep showing up and reading, but most importantly, take it to Holy Spirit for more revelation. Sometimes we think it's not the right time, but His gentle nudge not only shows us that we can, but more importantly, He will be our guide and our strength through it.
If you've missed any previous posts, please find the links below.
Simplify - Weekly Meal Planning
Simplify - Structured Play Time
After spending an afternoon with a friend who shared the satisfaction of crossing off tasks on her to-do list, I was intrigued.
Initially, I wanted to explore the benefits before diving in. To-do lists, as I discovered, serve as a valuable means to lighten our mental load. Whether we choose to jot down information on a to-do list, use post-its, or leverage technology, the objective remains the same: to liberate ourselves from the constant burden of mental remembrance.
In the realm of daily tasks, relying solely on our memory proves impractical. To-do lists emerge as invaluable reminders of what needs to be accomplished. The act of checking off completed tasks not only symbolizes tangible progress but also imparts a satisfying sense of achievement.
Consider your typical day as a mom, where numerous responsibilities demand your attention—organizing outings for the kids, navigating schedule changes, coordinating birthday parties, managing your own commitments like doctor's appointments, cooking meals, keeping track of friends' birthdays, and much more, not to mention work-related tasks. The to-do list becomes a valuable ally in navigating this intricate web of responsibilities.
Let’s look at other benefits, that finally where catching me attention:
Organization: To-do lists help organize tasks, making it easier to prioritize and manage time efficiently.
Memory Aid: They serve as external memory aids, reducing the mental burden of trying to remember all tasks.
Prioritization: To-do lists enable you to prioritize tasks based on urgency and importance, ensuring crucial tasks are addressed first.
Productivity: Checking items off a to-do list provides a sense of accomplishment and motivates further productivity.
Time Management: To-do lists assist in planning and allocating time effectively, preventing tasks from piling up.
Reduced Stress: Organizing tasks on a list can reduce stress by providing a clear plan of action.
Goal Setting: To-do lists allow you to set daily, weekly, or long-term goals, helping you stay focused on objectives.
Improved Focus: With tasks outlined, you can maintain focus on one task at a time, avoiding distractions.
Communication: To-do lists facilitate communication by clearly outlining tasks for team members or family members.
Flexibility: To-do lists can be adjusted as priorities shift, providing flexibility in managing changing circumstances.
Effectiveness and the gratification of achievement truly captured my attention, as the reality is, having a companion in the form of a sense of accomplishment in the evenings was not always a consistent aspect of my life.
What is it for you, what caught your attention?
Why would I need a to-do list anyway? I boast a memory comparable to a dolphin! Yes, I initially considered elephants, known for their memory mastery, but I discovered that dolphins, especially bottlenose dolphins, are the memory champions.
Dolphins showcase remarkable problem-solving skills, excel in learning and remembering various tasks, and demonstrate advanced memory in navigation, communication, and interactions with humans.
So, considering their skill for remembering various tasks, I'll go with dolphins as my memory role models.
I typically used to-do lists only for significant events that I organized, like conferences, to keep track and not lose sight of important details. However, the idea of jotting down everyday tasks didn't immediately cross my mind.
Yet, as the reality of forgetting a few things here and there dawned on me, especially with the myriad responsibilities of motherhood, I contemplated trying out this to-do list concept.
The question was: how should I start? Should I use a board, post-it notes, or invest in those beautifully crafted to-do notepads? If you know me well, you'd probably assume I'd choose the aesthetically pleasing notepad, and indeed, that was my initial inclination. However, realizing that waiting for it to arrive would take too long, and if I genuinely wanted to embark on this to-do list journey, I needed to start now. So, I opted for the less romantic version and began typing them on my computer.
On the first day, I wrote down everything that came to mind. Sometimes, thoughts about non-urgent tasks popped up during the day, and those went on the weekly list. And behold, even though I couldn't physically cross off each task with a pen, (virtually it was really a tick on the computer) I felt a sense of accomplishment.
To be honest, I achieved something every day even before using the list. However, this list supported me, especially in doing things I don't enjoy, like scheduling doctor appointments or responding to emails that go beyond a simple "Hello, how are you?". It provided a structured approach to my thoughts and relieved my brain from the constant need to remember if I'd forgotten anything.
Absolutely! Don't we all have those tasks that we keep pushing forward until they become urgent and can no longer be postponed? What I've experienced is that procrastinating these tasks often leads to having a day filled with non-preferred activities, which isn't the most enjoyable.
There are certain things I'd rather delay until tomorrow, but when they are written down, they take on a sense of urgency that I find necessary. The to-do list has been a helpful tool in organizing my thoughts and alleviating my brain from the thought of forgetting something. These lists have truly been a support in my daily life.
I must confess that I fell away from this practice and lost touch with most of it. It's fascinating how we can forget the benefits, efficiency, and, oh yes, the sense of accomplishment so quickly. A few months ago, thanks to a good friend and a dream, I found my way back to it and have been actively incorporating it into my routine again.
Will I stray away again, I hope not.
Where are you at this moment? Perhaps you were once a to-do list queen or king, diligently managing tasks years ago. Have you maintained that practice, or like me, have you lost sight of the benefits along the way?
The good news is that all it takes is a conscious decision to get back on track. It's never too late to rediscover the efficiency and sense of accomplishment that to-do lists can bring to our lives.
Perhaps you've never given it a shot, and all you need is that gentle nudge to try. From my experience, trying something new often requires more than just a day or two. Give yourself a week, and see how it positively impacts your daily routine.
Why not give it a go? You've got nothing to lose.